Cat Costume

Halloween time, its foggy which adds a sort of seasonal atmosphere there were lots of children about accompanied by adults in varying degrees of getting in the spirit of things from the bored looking father to the woman in a cat consume.  I've dressed as Hillary Cass accompanied by the screams of all gender variant persons, along with everyone else with common sense. So anyway onwards to November 1 and every retailer that has my mail will be telling me about black Friday and non stop Whamageddon.

Swindon Pride 2024

A few weeks ago I went to Swindon and Wiltshire pride a grey gloomy start but as you can see the sun did eventually come out. It was great to see so many come out and the new location in the Railway Village rather that at the top of the hill in Old Town worked very well.

00s Feminism

So Katy Perrys latest single has gotten a critical mauling and it's hard not to agree. It feels so 2008 but today feels very two thousand and late. It is a very 00s corporate endorsed message which people were told was "feminism" of hey girls your empowered doing mens jobs, as long as your wearing a skimpy outfit and not (to use that horribly common 00s phrase) a munter. Also don't you dare to deviate from the gender binary. 

Overload

Holly Vallance was in the news a few weeks ago and gave kind of gave some right wing talking points Holly's known for for singing for singing over a Turkish pop tune 20 years ago also had another three singles, 2 making the top ten and one of them got to number two hanging around in the chart for 16 weeks and I can't hum a note of it. So anyway she bowed the billionaire and kind of quoted that Churchill thing about. 

"If you're not a liberal at twenty, you have no heart, and if you're not a conservative at forty, you have no brain." This quote is often cited to illustrate the idea that people tend to become more conservative as they grow older. Although like a lot of things Churchill supposedly said he probably never said it at all. If you've been unlucky enough to be able to find the off switch while quote from quote that's been on is something the Nigel Rees has called "Churchillian drift". There are several things like this like the quote about famous quote about America said at all or the one still being ugly in the morning was actually said by someone else at the table. 

The trend of people becoming more conservative as they age is a common observation, but it's not universally true for everyone.  Research suggests that certain life experiences, such as having children or accumulating wealth, can contribute to a shift towards more conservative views. However, individual circumstances, personal values, and societal factors also play significant roles in shaping political beliefs over time. It is worryingly easy for man young people especially men, to drift into some kind of incel alt-right rabbit hole and polling support among under 30's for Trump are regularly around 40%.

Anyway here's some quality 2000'2 pop from Sugababes (version 1.0)

Transgender Day of Visibility

31st of March is Transgender Day of Visibility, a day to celebrate and visibility matters whether that's a character in Doctor Who or just someone being themselves. 

Salisbury

Took the bus down to Salisbury past soggy fields and the towns and villages between Wiltshire's largest settlement and only city. Naturally took in the magnificent cathedral, th after a long bys trip we turned down the chance to the Magna Carta in favor of a coffee and sandwich. The market is also worth a weave through. 

MMXXIV

A happy new year to all. 

No great resolutions other than I must sort out my jewelry box,  be kind to those who deserve it. 

2023 Unwrapped unpacking

Another one of those end of year wraps like Spotify telling me I listened to early 90s rave and 00s pop and didn't listen to any of their podcasts despite them spending 100s of millions trying to corner the market. But then neither did anyone else listen bar Joe Rogans thing. 

People sharing stuff from people who I blocked years ago like wizarding Karen,  punchable ex tabloid editors and priest sitcom co creator's from hate networks/  channels supporting their business models however inadvertently needs to stop. The latter whose book received the sort of publicity more deserving works could only dream about had pitiful sales and it seems anyone to do with said priest sitcom looks to have distanced themselves like the other co creator, production company and surviving collaborators.  

Mental health wise, i got a therapist and it's been good but yeah there's a lot to uunpac that I'll save for later date. 

Happy Christmas

After dipping into the chocolate's and peeling the sprouts its time to wish you a merry Christmas 

Not A Long

Sleepy so not a long entry. Job interview wore me out, more the performance anxiety than anything else. There's the awaited or dreaded depending on your view school guidance for transgender children, I think you'll know which side I'll take anyway so I'll save my energy for another day.

Ballet Flats

The ballet flat shoes are back is the claim in my inbox. I, admittedly not with the biggest finger on the pulse, wasn't aware it had gone away. They're an essential part of any shoe collection, lightweight to carry and handy when your strappy heals disintstrappy. My flats range from the simple black towards the sparkling silver.  Further news arrives telling me ballet flats are spreading to men or rather returning as any study of renaissance paintings would tell. Apparently this is partly thanks to pop star and bit of a hottie Harry Styles, who could wear tissue boxes on his feet and look cool. How serious this is time will tell, at least ìts not manned up in a terrible guyliner esc branding. 

Swing Your Pants At The Camera

When doing a interview remotely you always come across advice like, dress fully instead of just your top part, like you would if you were there face to face.

Which is clearly nonsense unless you are planning to stand up and swing your pants at the camera. Just wear what is comfortable down below or whatever you like smart trousers, budgie smugglers or in my case your favorite pencil skirt and comfy slippers.

Pansexual Pride Day

December 8 is Pansexual Pride Day, frequently misunderstood and misrepresented today was all about raising awareness and celebrating all those brilliant panies out there.

A Guide to Being a Trans Ally

A short guide:

Always listen to trans people.

Learn about trans .

Call out transphobia

We* don't expect perfection it is hard to unwire years of cis normative learning pronouns may slip as long as the hearts in the right place.

*Look at me speaking for everyone. Which I hope I kinda am.

Fade Away

There were many pieces of public arts which encouraged by the council sprung up from the 70s and 80s obey the years they've been painted over or removed. The very few out of the many beautiful murials adoring the side of buildings are the Arkells murial on Country Road and Ken White's Whalebridge painting which I mentioned many years ago on Fleming Way and this one which has just been neglected and allowed to slowly fade away.