Whether it bends, is floppy, erect, a show'er, a grower, circumcised, uncircumcised, thick, stubby, long tied up or anything else the fact is you have a very high chance that you're going to be ignored or blocked. It doesn't help you cut to the chaise and bring sexy time closer. You will get more interest if its a great smile or even your torso if anonymity is needed. Even pornography does not focus exclusively on genitals.
I have nothing against genitalia, they can, done right, be a whole party zone of pleasure and enjoyment but I would rather see the person they belong to as well